Biography
Rabbi Sol has served as a rabbi at BJ since 2001, becoming the first woman to serve as a rabbi in the congregation’s almost 200-year history. In June 2021, she was appointed as a senior rabbi of the congregation, also a first in the congregation’s history.
Rabbi Sol joined BJ as Family and Youth Director while in rabbinical school, and after ordination in 1999 served as a BJ Rabbinic Fellow for two years. During this time, she created Pnei Shabbat, BJ’s family prayer book, and edited Zimrat Yah: Prayers and Songs for Shabbat and Festivals.
After two years under the mentorship of Rabbis J. Rolando Matalon and Marcelo Bronstein, Rabbi Sol joined her teachers in their rabbinic partnership.
During her 25 year tenure as a rabbi at BJ, Rabbi Sol has overseen the programmatic vision for the community for members of every age: transforming the teen program; creating the beloved Women’s retreat; leading the community’s diversity, equity and inclusion efforts; and envisioning the communal Back Home Shabbaton. Mentoring over 20 BJ Rabbinic fellows in and beyond their time at BJ is one of the great privileges of her rabbinate.
Her service to the Jewish community goes beyond BJ: serving on the board of Bend the Arc for 15 years, and as a member of the rabbinic council of Jews for Racial and Economic Justice. She is a graduate of the Clergy Leadership of the Institute of Jewish Spirituality, and is currently in the 8th cohort of the Rabbinic Leadership Initiative of the Shalom Hartman Institute.
Rabbi Sol was featured in the documentary All of the Above: Single, Clergy, Mother and wrote an essay in the book Faithfully Feminist: Jewish, Christian and Muslim Feminists on Why We Stay. She is also featured in Identity/Crisis, a podcast of the Shalom Hartman Institute.
Rabbi Sol earned a BA in Developmental Psychology and Education from Tufts University, a Masters in Jewish Education from the Rhea Hirsch School of Education of Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in New York, her Masters of Hebrew Letters (1996) and rabbinic ordination (1999) also from HUC-JIR. She received her Doctor in Divinity from HUC-JIR for 25 years in the rabbinate.
Raised in Connecticut, Rabbi Sol has a son and a daughter and lives on the Upper West Side.
Articles Written by
Rabbi Felicia Sol
Within Each Season Is Everything
The opening stanza of Yehuda Amichai’s famous poem “A Man in His Life” captures much of what I was feeling last Thursday night, as Israel’s ...
We Cry Out
The theme of the American Jewish Committee event at the Capital Jewish Museum on Wednesday evening was entitled “Turning Pain into Purpose.” It featured members ...
Celebrating Partnership and Planting Seeds
It was the spring of 2002. I can still remember sitting in a cab with Sarale Shadmi, Chen Ben-Or Tsfoni, and Tlalit Shavit z”l on ...
The Ongoing Legacy of the BJ Rabbinic Fellowship
In 1995, the Righteous Persons Foundation reached out to Roly to have a conversation. The BJ community was growing by leaps and bounds. Services were ...
“It’s Our Story to Write”
On November 15, 1825 B’nai Jeshurun applied for incorporation, New York’s first Ashkenazic synagogue. Leading the charge were the young people boldly declaring “their intention ...
The God of Small Things
I don’t remember the details of the plot of the book but I can quickly identify its spine on my bookshelf and I will never ...
Condemning the Assassination Attempt on Former President Trump
We join people of all faiths and political persuasions in condemning the assassination attempt on former President Trump. We are grateful that the former president ...
Honoring These 25 Years
Two weeks ago I received my honorary Doctor of Divinity from HUC-JIR for serving 25 years in the rabbinate. The day began on the bimah ...
If a Woman Had Written the Torah
“If a woman had written the Torah, the creation story would have been a birthing story.” These words were spoken by an Orthodox feminist scholar ...
Love is the Engine
Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel famously said, “I am an optimist against my better judgment.” In general, I tend to sit in the space of optimism. ...
Therapists and clergy needed to support college students
Jewish college students are scared right now. Hillel is stepping up to rapidly enlist the help of mental health counselors, social workers, therapists, pastoral care ...
The Heartbeat of a People: Finding Light After Darkness
As the horror and enormity of the news was unfolding from Israel this past Saturday while we celebrated Shabbat and prepared for Simhat Torah, we ...
A Rabbinic Word
There’s a famous concept called the butterfly effect, which says that the seemingly small or trivial actions we take now can spread in larger and ...
Toward Shabbat: Shabbat Shavuot
I was ordained 24 years ago. Two days after I became a rabbi, my father went in for open heart surgery. Just a couple of days ...
Toward Shabbat: Tzav
I distinctly remember the archeology class I took during my junior year abroad at Hebrew University. We would study the Tanakh in the classroom and ...
Toward Shabbat: Yitro
It is chilling to read this week’s parashah in light of the earthquake that devastated Turkey and Syria this week: "Now Mount Sinai was all ...
Toward Shabbat: Shemot
I distinctly remember the first time I picked up a book of Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel’s in the library of Hebrew Union College in Jerusalem. ...
Add More Light: Rabbi Felicia Sol
Even when it doesn’t appear that sustaining light is possible. Even when the odds are not in our favor. Even when there is uncertainty about ...
Toward Shabbat: Toledot
In the past few weeks, we’ve lived through antisemitic rants and conspiracy theories dominating news headlines, exposing the pervasiveness and rise of Jew hatred in ...
Toward Shabbat: Bereshit
When my children and I walked home from shul on Simhat Torah, I felt exhaustion and relief deep in my bones. It’s been three years ...
Our Response to the Overturning of Roe v. Wade
For us, today is a sad and infuriating day in America. With the overturning of Roe v. Wade, the landmark 1973 ruling on reproductive rights, ...
Toward Shabbat: Behukkotai
On Wednesday morning I received an alert with new information about the mass shooting in Uvalde: The 19 children and two teachers that were murdered ...
Uvalde, Texas: There are no more words, only tears.
על אלה אני בוכיה For these things I do weep Lamentations 1:16 We can’t find the words that can express the enormity of horror and ...
Response to the future of Roe v. Wade
We were shocked, dismayed, and disappointed to hear about the Supreme Court’s draft opinion to overturn Roe v. Wade. The impact will be wide and ...
Toward Shabbat: Metzora
The rabbi of my childhood was a man of the “Greatest Generation.” He would ascend to the pulpit to give a sermon, ceremoniously take off ...
Toward Shabbat: Pekudei
On Purim, we are invited into a topsy turvy existence of our own making, putting on masks and reveling in the hidden. In a much ...
Toward Shabbat: Mishpatim
One of the most humbling aspects of the rabbinate is accompanying people through the literal or figurative valley of the shadow of death. In my ...
Toward Shabbat: Shemot
We human beings can feel profoundly vulnerable at times, wounded by what life foists upon us and what we inflict on ourselves. Sometimes, we feel ...
Toward Shabbat: Vayishlah
We have labored each in our own way to find a way through this pandemic. We’ve learned. We’ve mourned. We’ve been afraid. We’ve been humbled. ...
D’var Torah: Parashat Lekh Lekha and the Fight for Reproductive Rights
I was a baby when Roe v. Wade was decided. I did not grow up wondering, should I ever need an abortion, whether I could ...
Toward Shabbat: Noah
We don’t hear much of Noah’s worry in this week’s parashah. In fact, he doesn’t say one word from the moment he was chosen to ...
Why We Are Using More Inclusive Language on Our Membership Forms
This year, we made some small but significant changes to our membership forms. We are expanding the language options for gender identity: evolving the choices ...
Toward Shabbat: Shelah Lekha
How can one integrate such a violation of morality, systematic dehumanization, and the eradication of 6 million of our people and the instability of living ...
Responding to Antisemitism
We strongly condemn the tragic spike in targeted, antisemitic incidents happening all across the world, including in our country and city, against individuals and Jewish ...
Responding to Antisemitism
We strongly condemn the tragic spike in targeted, antisemitic incidents happening all across the world, including in our country and city, against individuals and Jewish ...
Responding to Antisemitism
We strongly condemn the tragic spike in targeted, antisemitic incidents happening all across the world, including in our country and city, against individuals and Jewish ...
Responding to Antisemitism
We strongly condemn the tragic spike in targeted, antisemitic incidents happening all across the world, including in our country and city, against individuals and Jewish ...
Responding to Antisemitism
We strongly condemn the tragic spike in targeted, antisemitic incidents happening all across the world, including in our country and city, against individuals and Jewish ...
Responding to Antisemitism
We strongly condemn the tragic spike in targeted, antisemitic incidents happening all across the world, including in our country and city, against individuals and Jewish ...
Toward Shabbat: Emor
The celebration of Lag Ba-Omer turned into a devastating tragedy at Mount Meron in Northern Israel when dozens were killed and injured. We pray for the healing ...
Our Statement on the Guilty Verdict from the Derek Chauvin Trial
Today our justice system found the man who killed George Floyd guilty. But our hearts are still heavy. The conviction today is one small victory ...
Our Statement on the Guilty Verdict from the Derek Chauvin Trial
Today our justice system found the man who killed George Floyd guilty. But our hearts are still heavy. The conviction today is one small victory ...
Our Statement on the Guilty Verdict from the Derek Chauvin Trial
Today our justice system found the man who killed George Floyd guilty. But our hearts are still heavy. The conviction today is one small victory ...
Our Statement on the Guilty Verdict from the Derek Chauvin Trial
Today our justice system found the man who killed George Floyd guilty. But our hearts are still heavy. The conviction today is one small victory ...
Our Statement on the Guilty Verdict from the Derek Chauvin Trial
Today our justice system found the man who killed George Floyd guilty. But our hearts are still heavy. The conviction today is one small victory ...
Our Statement on the Guilty Verdict from the Derek Chauvin Trial
Today our justice system found the man who killed George Floyd guilty. But our hearts are still heavy. The conviction today is one small victory ...
Toward Shabbat: Vayak’hel-Pekudei
Early in my rabbinate I met with a bat mitzvah girl who declared she was born at the wrong time. The roaring ‘20s would have ...
Toward Shabbat: Bo
It seems hard to believe that, a little over two weeks ago, a mob of insurrectionists stormed the Capitol intent on overturning an election, subverting ...
Toward Shabbat: Vayehi
Last Wednesday began like most school days this year. I woke up, davenned, made breakfast for my kids, and then walked them to school accompanied ...
Toward Shabbat: Vayetze
The Talmud (Berakhot 54b) declares that there are four types of people who must offer thanks to God with a thanks-offering and a special blessing: ...
Toward Shabbat: Noah
Each year, when my Tuesday lunchtime class starts up again, it finally feels like the long holiday season has come to a close and “regular” ...
Responding to the Crisis of Homelessness
Homelessness has been a painful, difficult and persistent issue in New York City since the 1970's, and there are presently more people experiencing homelessness in ...
Responding to the Crisis of Homelessness
Homelessness has been a painful, difficult and persistent issue in New York City since the 1970's, and there are presently more people experiencing homelessness in ...
Responding to the Crisis of Homelessness
Homelessness has been a painful, difficult and persistent issue in New York City since the 1970's, and there are presently more people experiencing homelessness in ...
Responding to the Crisis of Homelessness
Homelessness has been a painful, difficult and persistent issue in New York City since the 1970's, and there are presently more people experiencing homelessness in ...
Responding to the Crisis of Homelessness
Homelessness has been a painful, difficult and persistent issue in New York City since the 1970's, and there are presently more people experiencing homelessness in ...
Responding to the Crisis of Homelessness
Homelessness has been a painful, difficult and persistent issue in New York City since the 1970's, and there are presently more people experiencing homelessness in ...
Find Your Waze to the Light: Our High Holy Days Journey
Today is Rosh Hodesh Elul—the beginning of the month before the High Holy Days. So, as we do every year, our community embarks, individually and collectively, ...
Homelessness in our Community
Over the past few weeks, a controversy has erupted on the Upper West Side regarding the temporary use of local hotels to shelter men experiencing ...
We Will Do and We Will Listen
The Jewish community, our community, has a sacred calling to truly become a holy community, honor the dignity and equality of all, and embody the ...
We Will Do and We Will Listen
The Jewish community, our community, has a sacred calling to truly become a holy community, honor the dignity and equality of all, and embody the ...
We Will Do and We Will Listen
The Jewish community, our community, has a sacred calling to truly become a holy community, honor the dignity and equality of all, and embody the ...
We Will Do and We Will Listen
The Jewish community, our community, has a sacred calling to truly become a holy community, honor the dignity and equality of all, and embody the ...
We Will Do and We Will Listen
The Jewish community, our community, has a sacred calling to truly become a holy community, honor the dignity and equality of all, and embody the ...
We Will Do and We Will Listen
The Jewish community, our community, has a sacred calling to truly become a holy community, honor the dignity and equality of all, and embody the ...
Our High Holy Days Plans (2020)
And so while it is clear we cannot celebrate the Yamim Nora’im together in person this year, the BJ community will come together as one, ...
Our High Holy Days Plans (2020)
And so while it is clear we cannot celebrate the Yamim Nora’im together in person this year, the BJ community will come together as one, ...
Our High Holy Days Plans (2020)
And so while it is clear we cannot celebrate the Yamim Nora’im together in person this year, the BJ community will come together as one, ...
Our High Holy Days Plans (2020)
And so while it is clear we cannot celebrate the Yamim Nora’im together in person this year, the BJ community will come together as one, ...
Our High Holy Days Plans (2020)
And so while it is clear we cannot celebrate the Yamim Nora’im together in person this year, the BJ community will come together as one, ...
Our High Holy Days Plans (2020)
And so while it is clear we cannot celebrate the Yamim Nora’im together in person this year, the BJ community will come together as one, ...
Welcome Rabbi Rebecca Weintraub
Ever since Rebecca’s visit to our community in January, we have been excited at the possibility of her joining us as assistant rabbi. Becca was ...
Welcome Rabbi Rebecca Weintraub
Ever since Rebecca’s visit to our community in January, we have been excited at the possibility of her joining us as assistant rabbi. Becca was ...
Welcome Rabbi Rebecca Weintraub
Ever since Rebecca’s visit to our community in January, we have been excited at the possibility of her joining us as assistant rabbi. Becca was ...
Welcome Rabbi Rebecca Weintraub
Ever since Rebecca’s visit to our community in January, we have been excited at the possibility of her joining us as assistant rabbi. Becca was ...
Welcome Rabbi Rebecca Weintraub
Ever since Rebecca’s visit to our community in January, we have been excited at the possibility of her joining us as assistant rabbi. Becca was ...
Welcome Rabbi Rebecca Weintraub
Ever since Rebecca’s visit to our community in January, we have been excited at the possibility of her joining us as assistant rabbi. Becca was ...
Toward Shabbat: Naso
I am not living in a Black body and therefore today I want to give voice to one of our beloved staff members Denisha Green, ...
A Time of Pain and Fury
These are days of pain, rage, and fury. The vicious murder of George Floyd—a veritable lynching—is the latest of a long chain of murders of ...
Building a World with Love
At Kadima tefilah, after singing Olam Hesed Yibane (Build a World on Love) I asked kids to share in the chat one way they were ...
Toward Shabbat: Tazria-Mezora
My son Aiden turned double digits last week. The number celebrates his ten years of life and mine as a parent. It’s hard to believe.
Coronavirus Update: March 15
We have learned that a member of the BJ community has tested positive for the COVID-19 virus. We have temporarily closed the BJ campus, and ...
Coronavirus Update: March 12
We have made the very difficult decision to suspend all in-person programming other than prayer, and we will limit in-person participation in Shabbat Services to ...
Coronavirus Update: March 10
Find the latest information about the impact of COVID-19 on our community.
Coronavirus Update: March 9
Learn about important updates regarding upcoming programs and protocols. The March 9 Purim Afterparty is canceled; other Purim services and programs will continue as planned.
Coronavirus Update: March 6
With new information regarding the coronavirus and its presence in New York City and within the NYC Jewish community emerging by the hour, we want ...
Toward Shabbat: Terumah
I’ve been thinking a lot about these soundtracks and what it means to be a religious person amidst all the noise. Not only because there ...
Toward Shabbat: Va’era
Last Thursday, 27 BJ eighth and ninth graders, four BJ educators, and I traveled to Arizona to study issues of immigration with Tzedek America.